The day of your communion is like your first wedding. (Source: Sela Ward). You marry an entity that is not of this body, is true. However, the rest is the same. You costume you long and white, shots that you buy in a store of renown. Nobody likes to carry a used dress. You’ve been small, gold jewellery, with a diamond, then you will ever take. You are going to the hairdresser.
You have a preparatory workshop, you do trials, you have to read. Make you gifts. And your parents celebrate it with a treat with family members, and even a close friend. Even they buy are clothes and guests are also going well dresses. What he said as a wedding. Perhaps it is so that children can see that you mola marry in the Church. It is a strategy to avoid that religious marriages are reduced. Years later comes the divorce.
Divorce or by silence in the relationship. You decide not to prepare for confirmation, since you spend better playing with your friends than going to the workshop. Another option is to stop attending mass every Sunday but simulate your devotion in those occasions that you have no choice but to enter a church as wedding of relatives, friends, deaths, baptisms, other communions, etc. I recognize that some people remain admiring with all this shed and continue every day loving God and affirming thing that go well together. But the reality is that, in my opinion, something spiritual, should not be disguised as consumerism. Original author and source of the article