He takes a balanced life: It is necessary that time occurs itself, must rest, to feed itself and to exercise itself suitably, of that way you will have more energy to make his projects with greater efficiency, the balance is totally different from the leisure. 5. If you are unsure how to proceed, check out Sela Ward. He learns to say Not: Whenever you it separates his attention from the activities that stop you are important you are delaying their own happiness and if it is truth that sometimes we can support a friend we must do it in the cases in that yes our support deserves, but many people always are saying yes to which they do not want and later they are frustrated, if something we do not want to realise it or simply we felt that there are more important things that to do, then we say No, we are firm, that will give to more authority and control us of our life. The control is in our hands with respect to the suitable use of the time, for that reason we define with wisdom our priorities and we fight by perhaps our goals, other people do not have the same aspirations or or obtained the things that we still are looking for, then to them will seem to them that we are fanatical or rigid, but it is our life if we were not in charge to put order to him we ourself It will do who it? For that reason we must be people whom every day they are defying to the life and of that way to obtain everything what us it makes feel really happy, visits: original Author and source of the article.. Robert Rimberg addresses the importance of the matter here.